From Now and Then.......

Dear If I could be with you
I could see those tear drops flown away
could see you cry out loud
and I would lend you my shoulder dear
I wish I could kiss away your pain
and swear that it won't happen again
My darling, my love
How could I ever hurt and make you cry?
i am sorry if I did so...
Deep in my heart
you are there, right here
I can tell and will always
I see your eyes, your face
such a cry baby you are
and always you are in my thoughts
How could you even imagine?
that I'd hurt your feelings
Maybe I did
that's why I see you
crying face on my screen
You are perfect
yes you are and will always be
no matter what...
Dear, Just to say
I love you and will always do
Please don't let me down
and I'am sure you won't
coz, you are there always for me
and I expect the same every day
you have lost your smile honey
where is it?
Please smile me once just once
and let me feel your joy
that's it.. I see you dear
I die to see that single glimpse dear
and rest in peace
It brings ease to me and my thoughts
makes me feel you are doing okay
not good but okay
you are living a hard life
and I can see it in your eyes
your weary face and those lips
always willing to say something
but, they never let out anything
There're a lot of things that
you have and want them to share
still you hide them
still you keep within yourself
Dear, am I that confusion now?
I know dear,
I can see it in you
how depressed you are
your each and every expressions
that you make on your face
reminds me of pain
My love, I wish i could take them all away
And I know I will
My darling, I am looking at you
and your smiles
they ease my feelings
so exhausted and tired you look
and so are your smiles dear
but still full of hopes and dreams
I love it...
Dear, I want to fulfill all your desires
and make our dream come true
Dear, I just want to say
I love you...
and I am missing you a lot
a lot more from now and then

 

 

 

Dear,

Seems like miles apart... you are being so far away and it hurts when I think about you. What do I see and feel ends with you and that kills me inside. Maybe I am missing you... with each passing day and each moment I'm living here without you...

Far awa, there's a light

showing me the way ahead

Dear, I see you..

With candle light on...

nobody, but seen only by me..

leading me the way ahead...

showing me the directions...

when I am lost and confused...

but far away sometimes

I feel, you're not there with me...

Is it only my illusion?

I think again

Again I realise

I need no eyes to see you

You're always with me...

Controlling all these emotions

sharing wiht my imaginations

Yes, there you are!!!

Being the sight of me

Always making me feel

Here I am dear

Here I am...

Feels like

I am missing you again....

-Psychodeeps

 

If you don't set relationship goals, you will always be wondering what tomorrow holds. When you get sick and tired of that, you will do something different. Most likely, not before.

Working together in a love relationship to get your individual needs met and the mutual needs of the relationship and not have expectations about how those needs get met will always generate new things to talk about. Having expectations about how your needs get met is not only unrealistic it is an unhealthy attitude. For example, if I expect you to love me a certain way and your love doesn't show up that way for me, I will most likely be disappointed. A better way might be to have your need for being loved fulfilled by allowing your love partner to love you the way they love you. Being okay with how they love you creates a sense of adventure; it creates new and exciting possibilities for the two of you to experience together. Often challenges show up. However, when two people really love each other and are committed to work together, challenges like these create the kind of conversation that empowers both love partners to continue to self-inquire. They then choose to investigate their curiosities about what they can do to stand together, to be challenged by this new way of being and know that everything is going to be okay.

Affirmation ~ I am learning how to overcome my limitations and develop my capacity to love, not because I expect love in return, but simply because my love partner deserves to be loved.

In healthy love relationships, there is no second place. There is no longer any need to have one of you be number one and one of you be number two. Healthy people share. In a healthy love relationship, generosity expresses itself generously. Love partners are not afraid to share the spotlight. Give up the idea of having to have any one of the two people who make up a relationship be subservient. When two people really love each other, they are not afraid to be their love partner's equal. Two people, each number one to each other and to the relationship, working together on similar things and accepting mutual responsibility when things are good and also when things are not so good, can only empower the relationship. You give of yourself to the other. You never give up yourself to the other. When you are both number one, no one ever has to worry about competition in the relationship. When two people work together, they can always accomplish more.